Good to be bad, Sometimes.

Hey there!
You may ask yourselves sometimes, Why am I so good? Why? Does everyone really deserve my kindness? What would it feel like to be the bad guy? Should I try it?

Let’s find all the answers for you, my friend.

You are in constant confusion because you have seen it all, You had that pain of betrayal you went on the train of heartbreak.
You know what? It’s okay. Relax! breathe with the dots and count…1….2….3…

You may have lost someone dear to you, I understand.
Just tell yourself, It’s fine. It all happens for a reason.
Now, you’d think why it had to happen to me only? The reason better be good! or you may be thinking why am I here? Reading this nonsense?
Well, my dear friend, we are all here, you may be reading this or not, you are here. In this situation.

Betrayal leaves you clueless and makes you wonder about what just happened? You feel why did it happen to me? As you did it all. You gave your 101% in your relationship, be it with a friend, lover or family.
We all suffer this pain once or maybe more than once.

I said once because you learn from your own experiences.
I won’t call them ‘mistakes’.
Why?
Mistakes are made by writing the wrong answer in the exam while knowing the right one, That you call as a mistake.
Loving someone, choosing someone among billions of people, trusting them, being with them is not a mistake. It’s a roller coaster of memories. You gain these experiences from your most loved ones when they leave you, you shatter. Your life may become dark for a while, a week, a month or maybe years.
What you’ll realize is that you CAN live without them.
It’s really okay not having the same company.
It’s okay to cry, to feel pain and get up to face the entire world.
That day also comes where you keep your head held high and breathe the fresh air of freedom.

Freedom of non-toxicity in your life. You become little rude and cold-hearted for people because of such incident but still, you got to trust people in life. If you won’t, How will you survive?
Life is a game, you pick people worth getting hurt from and move on. It goes on and so shall you, my dear.

Find the good in the bad, not the other way round.
Love yourself first before giving that much of priority to another human. Well, if you do that, again, just be confident you’ll get over it. Trust me, you will. Talking to those people after several years will never be the same. Never.

It’s okay to be a little bad, Just a little. Otherwise, the world will eat you raw.
You need to give your kindness to those who have the right to break your trust. Those prior to you. We should rather say, those ‘YOU’ make prior to you.

I feel sad composing this article because the world is getting fierce day by day. Sometimes I feel there is no humanity left in this world, Then I sense we are the ones making everything worse.
We doubt, betray, hurt and what not?

Let’s do something good for a change.

Let’s love, care and live with a pure happy heart and soul.

Let’s just smile at each and every stranger as we know they are also upholding a battle against something.

Let’s be who we really are, humans.

You’ll be fine. Trust me.
You’ll fight this, prove yourself wrong, fly high and most importantly, You’ll get through this on your own, my friend.

Be worthy of getting such beautiful experiences from the most beautiful people on earth. You’ll love it. No matter what.

See you, smile!

Big love,
Aamna (Your blogger at peaceful times)

Advertisements

Wish

I wish things were the way
they used to be
Open the doors of the cage, make me free
I want to fly, Up in the sky
My feathers are
Scared to open up wide
The memories just slide,
People try to hide
All I believe is to wish & try
Wish to be stronger, Wish to be younger
Wish to remove, Every poor’s hunger
I help people but I myself need therapy
Am I doing any good
Or just setting the wrong key?
Human nature it is to wish,
Take the pain away and kiss
Kiss the pain,
Kiss the sorrow
I wish we meet again tomorrow.

Thank you

DIST—–ANCE

I was there for you in your darkest times
I was there for you in your darkest nights
But i wonder where were you
When i was at my worst
Down on my knees
You said you had my back
But i wonder where were you
When all the roads you took came back to me
Here i am looking for the lyrics and not the music
This lonliness makes me sick
I believe things go wrong and people do change
But i never thought you would do the same
My efforts were beyond my imagination
But as they say, sometimes everything you do for someone is not everything for them.
I miss our talks
I miss our walks
I miss you but thats not all.
You were my priority and will always be
No matter what i mean to you
You have my back forever
Just make an effort to dial my no.
Just make an effort to email me.
Do what you can but don’t ever let me go far where you can’t even see me.
I will evaporate as if i am a drop of water that too in a desert
Do what’s right.
Don’t trust people soo easily.
People in your life will come and go
But constants never change you see?
I am the constant part of your life
No matter how hard life is
I’m here.
I can’t assure you that i can solve all your problems but i can assure you that you don’t have to face them alone.
With all my love i have for you it’s hard to accept the fact that you’ve gone too far and here i am walking on the same road.
I wish everything turns back to normal or should i say abnormal, as we were never normal.PicsArt_04-10-07.54.36

Meeting you

Meeting you after a long time and wondering how people grow

Not just by face but by the demeanour they show

We went to a coffee shop and had a great time

Talking about moments and people sometimes

I wish i could pause the time

talk to you for hours and not mind

The silence we shared when we got nothing to talk about

Was something unusual as i didn’t get bored

The way the silence went for a while

Was pleasant and felt good all the time

Even the silences make sense

That’s why you’re my best friend

I love to talk to you and meet you anywhere

The bond we share you’ll find it nowhere

That’s how life goes on

You got to leave something behind in order to move on

Meeting you was a pleasure

A pleasure as great as a treasure

A treasure i will cherish

Forever

Thank you!

Miss You

I know i miss you,

But what can i do? 

I see you everywhere,

Hear your voice in my head.

Oh! So foolish i am,

To miss you everyday.

From the dusk to dawn,

You control my mind.

Will you stop and let me be fine? 

It has been a long time since we’ve met.

My circumstances barricade me from meeting you.

I wish I could see you everyday,

Talk to you for hours and not get bored.

I forgot to smile the way i used to, they say.

I tell them they don’t know what it feels like to be here with flashbacks in my head. 

My mind is so messed up,

Talking to you has become an addiction.

I switched all my social sites off so i don’t get distracted,

But we talked on mail as i was attracted,

Attracted to the addiction which is like a drug to me and is hard to leave.

You’re the dose i need,

To keep myself optimistic in what so ever situation i am in. 

That’s why i love you,

That’s why i miss you. 

Thank you! 

Nightlife

How weird this night is, I wonder. I
can’t sleep because of all the chaos in my head..thinking about those people who love me, hate me and most of all about what i should’ve said. What a regretful life i am living in a place where, for people a “piece of cake” is more important than the “peace of nation” . 😂

I feel like drowning in the deep ocean of thoughts at night, all the memories come in front as if i am dying. And yes, we do die at night. Each morning is not only a new day, but a new life. Still, we are not thankful enough to the almighty. Rather stressed about our lives. what a selfish act, isn’t it?

You never know if you’re gonna make it until tomorrow. So, why not make your days worth watching as a flashback at night?

I wonder if these flashbacks are miserable or we are?
Flashbacks are of so many kinds, every person has a different one. That moment they cherish forever in their minds. 😄

I wish people knew the importance of each day.

I would just like to say..

People will come in your life, leave, ignore and hurt you.
You got to choose, who is the one worth the pain.
Because that person will book a place in your heart.
They say “Smile, because you can
But do they smile?
Who knows?
We here, in a population of approximately 7 billion people and 14 billion faces are confused.
Confused about the difference between
Living and existing.

Smile and make it all worthwhile is all i want to say. 😁

image

Thank you

12 ways Adventure Time is making you a better person.

Adventure time is for children but is written by adults, Duh! And these amazing people wrote about life in a form of a simple cartoon. And they teach us very meaningful things, sometimes.
Such as..

1. Sucking at something is the first step towards being good at something.

image

2. Love can hurt sometimes.

image

image

image

3. Be yourself.

image

4. Do what your heart says!

image

5. Oooohh..

image

image

6. Make mistakes, grow up.

image

7. You’re beautiful, in and out.

image

8. Holding hands is OK for safety.

image

9. There is a world beyond materialistic things.

image

image

image

10.  Be optimistic.

image

11. You need problems if you want to live.

image

12.  Focus on the real.

image

image

Hope you enjoyed the “FIN AND JAKE ” ride.
Thank you.

I

I may not be perfect,

but i am not like anyone else,

I may not show my scar,

but it has already left its mark,

I may not be the rainbow,

neither am i the rainy storm,

I am a simple being,

trying to stand out of the crowd.

As i grow older and wiser,

the world teaches me to grow strong with all i have,

with all i have, I will make it worth it,

not today but tomorrow,

I will see where the fate takes me,

and will turn back and run away as fast as i can,

because my friend,

I am not what I will be

after a year or so, I will change.

The change will leave me alone,

as I will work on my own.

No friends will I have, nor family support.

I will stand on my own,

and will die the same.

I cannot challenge death,

neither can anyone else.

No matter how strong i get.

I will make sure the world knows my name

and that hard work of mine will,

pay off at the end.

Thank you.

image

Who am i?

I’m sure many of us do think about this question in one or the other time in their lives that who are they? But like most of us, we just tell our name, age, gender etc. As our answer to this particular question. Is it so? Hell yes!
But if one thinks deep about it they’ll find out who they are and get they are. But my friend, the problem is that we ourselves have no idea who we are. We are humans they say, but do they act like one? The simple answer to the question “who am i?” is that we are the universe, the sky, the moon, the sun, the wind, the thunderstorm, the earth, the environment, the tsunami, the waves, the river, the rock, the sand and what not, my friend! What not?
We are simple but complex.
We are high but low at the same time.
We are flying but in an airplane.
We are dust but together a tornado.
We are precious (as diamond) yet found in coal.
We are humans yet monsters.
Most of all, we are unsatisfied.
Unsatisfied after all that we have,
For a man with a bike, is unsatisfied as he wants a car.
For a man with a car wants a better car, maybe the best.
For a man with the best car wants a villa.
For a man with both wants to live in peace but still stressed out of his work.
No one here is satisfied.
I don’t know, when will one ever be.
I see poor children being more happy than us who have everything we need by the grace of Allah.
A man once said,
I can buy everything but still i am poor.
Simply means that a man has everything, he can buy all those diamonds out there. But what he lacks is the love he can never buy, the emotions he can never buy.
Now have you got the answer of “who am i?”
No?
Neither do i.

image

Create a free website or blog at WordPress.com.

Up ↑