You may ask yourselves sometimes, Why am I so good? Why? Does everyone really deserve my kindness? What would it feel like to be the bad guy? Should I try it?
Let’s find all the answers for you, my friend.
You are in constant confusion because you have seen it all, You had that pain of betrayal you went on the train of heartbreak.
You know what? It’s okay. Relax! breathe with the dots and count…1….2….3…
You may have lost someone dear to you, I understand.
Just tell yourself, It’s fine. It all happens for a reason.
Now, you’d think why it had to happen to me only? The reason better be good! or you may be thinking why am I here? Reading this nonsense?
Well, my dear friend, we are all here, you may be reading this or not, you are here. In this situation.
Betrayal leaves you clueless and makes you wonder about what just happened? You feel why did it happen to me? As you did it all. You gave your 101% in your relationship, be it with a friend, lover or family.
We all suffer this pain once or maybe more than once.
I said once because you learn from your own experiences.
I won’t call them ‘mistakes’.
Mistakes are made by writing the wrong answer in the exam while knowing the right one, That you call as a mistake.
Loving someone, choosing someone among billions of people, trusting them, being with them is not a mistake. It’s a roller coaster of memories. You gain these experiences from your most loved ones when they leave you, you shatter. Your life may become dark for a while, a week, a month or maybe years.
What you’ll realize is that you CAN live without them.
It’s really okay not having the same company.
It’s okay to cry, to feel pain and get up to face the entire world.
That day also comes where you keep your head held high and breathe the fresh air of freedom.
Freedom of non-toxicity in your life. You become little rude and cold-hearted for people because of such incident but still, you got to trust people in life. If you won’t, How will you survive?
Life is a game, you pick people worth getting hurt from and move on. It goes on and so shall you, my dear.
Find the good in the bad, not the other way round.
Love yourself first before giving that much of priority to another human. Well, if you do that, again, just be confident you’ll get over it. Trust me, you will. Talking to those people after several years will never be the same. Never.
It’s okay to be a little bad, Just a little. Otherwise, the world will eat you raw.
You need to give your kindness to those who have the right to break your trust. Those prior to you. We should rather say, those ‘YOU’ make prior to you.
I feel sad composing this article because the world is getting fierce day by day. Sometimes I feel there is no humanity left in this world, Then I sense we are the ones making everything worse.
We doubt, betray, hurt and what not?
Let’s do something good for a change.
Let’s love, care and live with a pure happy heart and soul.
Let’s just smile at each and every stranger as we know they are also upholding a battle against something.
Let’s be who we really are, humans.
You’ll be fine. Trust me.
You’ll fight this, prove yourself wrong, fly high and most importantly, You’ll get through this on your own, my friend.
Be worthy of getting such beautiful experiences from the most beautiful people on earth. You’ll love it. No matter what.
See you, smile!
Aamna (Your blogger at peaceful times)